FILIPINO VALUES
VALUES are integral part of every
culture, with worldview and personality, they generate behavior. Being part of
a culture that shares a common core set of values creates expectations and
predictability without which a culture would disintegrate and its member would
lose their personal identity and sense of worth. Values tell people, what is
good, beneficial important , useful, beautiful, desirable, constructive, etc.
They answer the question of why people do what they do. Values help people
solve common problems for survival. Overtime they become the roots of
traditions that groups of people find important in their day-to-day lives.
Filipino values may be attributed
into many influences. These can be from its ancestors or influenced fro its
colonizers. Some values are bipolar, meaning it can be positive or negative.
Family Orientation
The basic and most important unit of a Filipino's life is the
family. Unlike in Western countries, young Filipinos who turn 18 are not
expected to move out of their parents' home. When a Filipino's parents are old
and cannot take care of themselves, they are cared for in their children's
homes and are very rarely brought by their children to Homes for the Aged. The
practice of separating the elderly from the rest of the family, while common in
Western countries, is often looked down upon in Filipino society. Family
lunches with the whole clan with up to 50 people, extending until the line of
second cousins, are not unusual. The Filipino puts a great emphasis on the
value of family and being close to one's family members.
Joy and Humor (Biro)
This famous trait is the ability of Filipinos to find humour in
everything. It sheds light on the optimism and positivity of Filipinos in
whatever situation they are in so as to remain determined in going through
struggles or challenges. It serves as a coping technique, the same way a child
who has fallen laughs at himself/herself to hide his/her embarrassment.[6]
Flexibility,
Adaptability, Creativity
Studies show that Filipinos often have an aversion to a set of
standardised rules or procedures; They are known to follow a Natural Clock or
Organic sense of time- doing things in the time they feel is right. They are present-oriented:
which means that one attends to a task or requirement at the time it is needed
and does not worry much about future engagements. This allows the Filipino to
adapt and be flexible in doing the tasks at times not bound to a particular schedule
or timeframe. This allows them think on their feet and be creative in facing
whatever challenge or task they have even when it is already right in front of
them.
Faith and
Religiosity
The Philippines is approximately 85 percent Christians (mostly
Roman Catholic Christians ), 10 percent Muslim, and 5 percent 'other'
religions, including the Taoist-Buddhist religious beliefs of Chinese and the
'indigenous' animistic beliefs of some peoples in upland areas that resisted
300 years of Spanish colonial rule.[7] This is a reflection of the Filipinos' strong
faith in God as seen in their various practices. This includes the numerous
Church Holidays they observe, the customary (and obligatory) Sunday Mass, the
individual's basis of their moral standpoints, the influence of the Church on
the minds, actions, and opinions of the majority, importance of the Sacraments,
Praying at almost any possible time of the day, the extreme practices during
Holy Week,[8]
Ability to
Survive
The Filipinos as a people who have been constantly under the
rule of numerous powerful countries has over time, developed a sense of resourcefulness
or the ability to survive with whatever they have. They have the extraordinary
ability to make something out of almost nothing. If a Filipino was given just a
screwdriver, plastic bags, and some tape, he would still be able to build a
bird tree, especially for the sake of survival, and provided that he be allowed
to hunt for some needed surrounding material.[9]
Hard Work
and Industry
With resourcefulness comes hard work. Filipinos are very
determined and persevering in accomplishing whatever they set their minds to.
Filipinos over the years have proven time and time again that
they are a people with an industrious attitude. Sadly, this is seen by others
as Filipinos being only useful as domestic helpers, working abroad to help
their families in the country. This is also present in the country’s workforce
particularly the farmers. Even with little support, technological weaknesses
and the country’s seasonal typhoons, the Filipino farmer still strives to earn
their daily meal.[10]
Hospitality
Foreigners who come
to visit the Philippines speak of Filipinos going out of their way to help them
when lost, or the heartwarming generosity of a Filipino family hosting a
visitor in their poverty-stricken home. Meanwhile, most foreigners who attend
Filipino gatherings abroad (which are frequently organized for hundreds of
reasons) testify to the warmth and friendliness of Filipinos as they experience
that feeling of “belongingness.” Indeed, the legendary Filipino hospitality is
not limited to the Philippines. It is everywhere wherever there are Filipinos.
Bayanihan
System or spirit of Kinship and camaraderie
A Filipino community spirit and cooperation wherein a group of
individuals extends a helping hand without expecting any remuneration. It is
characterized by communal work towards one goal exemplified in carrying a nipa
house or pushing a passenger jeepney.
Damayan
System
Sympathy for people who lost their love ones, In case of death
of a certain member of the community the whole community sympathizes with the bereaved
family.Neighbors, friends and relatives of the deceased usually give certain
amount of money on their way of showing sympathy.
Fun-loving trait
A trait found in most Filipinos, a trait that makes them unique
that even in time of calamities and other challenges in life, they always have
something to be happy about a reason to celebrate.
Compassionate
A Filipino trait of
being sympathetic to others even if the person is a stranger. An example of
this is giving alms to beggar. This is observed when we hear Filipinos saying
“kawawa naman or nakakaawa namn”.
Friendly
A trait found in most Filipinos. They are sincere loyal kind and
sociable person.
Remedyo
Attitude
A Filipino trait of being creative and resourceful.The ability
to do things that are next to impossible. Example in fixing appliances that
look impossible to repair.
Crab Mentality
Crab mentality, sometimes referred
to as crabs in the bucket,
describes a way of thinking best described by the phrase "if I can't have
it, neither can you." The metaphor refers to a pot of crabs.
Individually, the crabs could easily escape from the pot, but instead, they
grab at each other in a useless "king of the hill" competition
which prevents any from escaping and ensures their collective demise. The analogy in human behavior is that members of
a group will attempt to "pull down" (negate or diminish the
importance of) any member who achieves success beyond the others, out of envy, conspiracy or competitive feelings.
This term is broadly associated with
short-sighted, non-constructive thinking rather than a unified, long-term,
constructive mentality. It is also often used colloquially in reference to
individuals or communities attempting to "escape" a so-called
"underprivileged life", but kept from doing so by others attempting
to ride upon their coat-tails or those who simply resent their success.
Colonial Mentality
ANTI-FILIPINOS say that Filipinos, because of
their colonial mentality, always prefer foreign talents and products to local
ones. This mentality does exist, but it is wrong to accuse us Filipinos as
always practicing it.
Colonial mentality is the thinking that foreign talents and products
are always the good, the better, and the best, and that the local ones are of
poor or no quality at all. Colonial because
our Spanish and American colonizers, during their four-century rule of the
Philippines, instilled into the Filipino mentality the belief that foreigners
and anything associated with them were the superior, and that Filipinos and
anything associated with them were worthless.
Euphemism
A Filipino way of substituting a word or phrase that is thought
to be offensive or harsh with a mild and acceptable one in order to not offend
or hurt another person.
Filipino Time
Filipino Time, which means things get done
whenever they get done. Official Timing of The Philippines.
I set up part for 6:00. This is interpreted as
7:00 filipino time
In Some cases, Filipino hosts deliberately set the time and hour or so
earlier, knowing that the guests will arrive an hour or so late. In this case,
the poorAmericans are
surprised to see that they’re the first ones to arrive and the only ones there
for the first hour or so.
Gaya-Gaya
attitude
A Filipino attitude of imitating or copying other culture
specifically in mode of dressing, language, fashion, or even haircut.
Jackpot
Mentality
A “get rich quick” mentality of some Filipinos who would rather
engage in fast ways of acquiring money than through hard work and sacrifice by
getting in lottery, joining raffle draws and other.
Kapalaran
values
A Filipino trait of accepting his fate by believing that
everything is written in his palm. Such traits contributes to lack initiative
and perseverance among Filipinos.
Mañana Habit
The Mañana Habit is something
that we have learned from the Spaniards. The word "Mañana" means
‘tomorrow’ or ‘specified future time’ also known as “procrastination” in plain
English, “mamaya na” in Filipino.
A Filipino habit in
delaying or setting aside a certain task assigned on the next day although it
can be done today.
Ningas-Cogon
The popular Filipino phrase "Ningas
Cogon" refers to the unnerving attitude of starting an initiative but
fails to continue it, or the lack of a follow-up. It is generally viewed as a
negative trait and i do not know if there is any one person who feels that this
is good behavior.
Oversensitive
Filipinos have a tendency to be irritated easily or hurt upon
hearing some criticisms or comment.
Lack of
Sportmanship
Not accepting defeat in competitions but rather putting the
blame either to their opponent or to the sport officials.
Tsamba
lang attitude
Simplicity by declaring that his/her accomplishments are results
of luck and not from perseverance and ability.
Amor Propio
“Amor propio” is
Spanish word which means self –love; a sense of self-esteem or self respect
that prevents a person from swallowing his pride. It includes sensitivity to
personal insult or affront. A slight remark or offensive gesture, though
insulting, would not trigger a sense of “amor propio”. The stimulus that sets it off is only that which
strikes at the Filipino’s
most highly valued attributes.
Delicadeza
Delicadeza is a
Spanish term which when translated in English means daintiness. It is defined
as an act of being refined or delicate in tastes or manners. But in
simple terms, its commonly referred to as a sense of propriety or how to behave
rightly in all circumstances. It is in essence an etiquette that was passed on
to us as a legacy of the Spanish culture.
Palabra De Honor
Another value of the Filipinos is lack of a
“Palabra de Honor” which means a verbal commitment by one person to another
agreeing to do (or not to do) something in the future
Gender-specific values
In relation to parenthood, bearing male and female children
depends on the preferences of the parents based on the expected roles that each
gender would assume once grown up. Both genders are expected to become
responsible members of the family and their society. Women in the Philippines are expected to become caring and nurturing
mothers for their own children.[12]
Female Filipinos are also expected to lend a hand in household
work. They are even anticipated to offer assistance after being married. On the
other hand, Filipino men are
expected to assume the role of becoming the primary source of income and
financial support of his family.
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